Happy Birthday!

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Dearest Little One –

Today is your day! We can’t tell you how excited we are to meet you!! We have been smiling big smiles since we woke up this morning! You are the miracle we have been waiting and preparing for!! It’s amazing how a little person like you, who we have never met in person yet, can be such a source of joy to so many people before you even arrive!!

The dogs are very anxious to meet you…. We can’t wait to watch your friendshp with them grow!

We wish for you on this birthday, and all those to come, everything life can give you:
A strong intimate relationship with God – your Source of true happiness
That you feel the love that we and so many others have for you
That you feel empowered to be strongly and beautifully you wherever you are
That you are our little “Stargirl!”

WELCOME HOME!! We love you… always,

Mom & Dad


The latest on your arrival

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Hey Sweetie –

Good morning! It’s Saturday, February 19. We learned more about your upcoming arrival this week – let me fill you in. First, as you know, you have been hanging out right side up (which technically is upside down with respect to being born in the safest possible way), so your Daddy & I have been doing ALLLL kinds of things to hel p you turn – the Gospel choir has been praying for you, Toussaint plays the drums a little louder for you, St Margaret Mary’s has had you on their prayer chain, I started acupuncture and doing a bunch of strange looking exercises, and your Daddy and I have being doing moxibustion!! Want a funny visual image? Moxibution involves burning an herb wrapped like a cigarette near pressure points on the outsides of my pinky toes WHILE I lie upside down on a board and hold ice on the top of my uterus!!!

A traditional Chinese medical practice that involves the burning of herbs to stimulate acupuncture points (moxibustion) is found to be effective in stimulating fetal movement and in correcting breech presentation, according to an article in “The Journal of the American Medical Association” (JAMA).

What a funny site to see! Daddy & I did this at 5:30am and 10pm every day – the heat and burning frequency were supposed to help you turn, upside down to help you come out of my pelvis, and the ice to help you to go the other way. However, as we have learned, you knew better than to turn…

This Tuesday we learned that you have your umbilical cord wrapped around your little neck (which is actually quite common), and it is not really safe for you to turn upside down. Look how smart you are already!! And strong! Good job! So we now know that we will have a c-section to bring you into the world. The cool thing is we get to pick your birthday (unless I go into labor before then – let’s try to hold off, okay?). We chose Friday, March 4 for many reasons:

1. Your birthday will be 3/4/05… How cool is that?!?

2. Technically your due date of 3/7 was 5 days premature based on your first measurements, so technically 3/4 marks the beginning of your 39th week of growing in me (which, they think, is the ideal time for delivery by c-section).

3. Daddy has a very important test to take on 3/1, and once you arrive he will have a MUCH harder time concentrating. You and I already know that he will do a FABULOUS job!

Anyway, so we are now planning a little pre-birthday party for you for 3/3. I can’t eat after midnight that night (in preparation for the surgery), and your Auntie Amy will be in town, so we thought we would have a feast! Again, more celebrating of the miracle God is making called You!!

(If any of Little Raz’s local friends have some time Thursday night, 3/3, and would like to join us for dinner the night before the surgery for a little pre-Birthday celebration and to meet my sister Amy, please do!! We will have dinner [AND DESSERT 😉 ] at Pomodoro’s [Pomodoro’s -1290 University Avenue, Rochester, NY 585.271.5000] at 7:30pm. We would love for you to join us… Just add your numbers to the reservation for “Tatemann.”)

Well, Sweeite, lots to do before you arrive. Keep growing beautiful and strong, and we’ll see you VERY SOON!!

All our love,
Your Mommy & Daddy


A Second Party in Your Honor

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Hey Little One –

This past weekend, my university department threw another party in YOUR honor. Teaching & Curriculum folks (and a few others) gathered Saturday, February 12 (my baptismal birthday) at Jeannine’s beautiful home to have a baby shower for you. So many people came – Meg brought little Maeve, Kara brought little Hugh, and Karen brought little Margo, so we all got to hold and play with babies as we were thinking about you! Sadly, Daddy had to work at the pharmacy that day so he couldn’t be there. Check out the pictures!


The little giraffe from your Auntie Amy


The Hostesses with the Mostesses: Jeannine & MJ

We are all so excited to see you! Can’t wait until you arrive!!

Love,
Your Mommy

p.s. You gave your Daddy his first Valentine’s Day card from “his little gir”” today! He was so impressed!!


First Baby Shower

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Hey Little One!

Guess what?!?! Last Sunday (2/6/05) we had the first party in YOUR honor!! Tracy, Drew & Caroline hosted the festivities – a Baby Shower for the Spiritus Christi Gospel Choir! We all had such a GREAT time!!

So many people were able to be there to celebrate you, eat John & Jonathon’s wonderful cake, and share stories of other babies’ arrivals! Nana Sheri helped me cut your cake. Aunt Sharlene said she can’t wait for you to come! Myra helped direct you to do the turning that you still need to do. Everyone showered you with beautiful presents – practical and precious! You certainly are a loved little girl! Daddy and I are so thankful for all of their love and friendship!

Just thought you should know what all that fun was about!
All my love,
Your Mommy


What’s in a name?

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Hey Baby Girl –

As we are thinking about your arrival, we have been contemplating, researching, debating so many beautiful names! We want to give you a name that is as special and strong and beautiful as you. Check out this site that your friend Alan sent us… It’s very cool!

http://babynamewizard.com/namevoyager/lnv0105.html

The name we are leaning toward most means:

divine creative force in everything

I also heard your name used by someone from work who was talking about a teenage girl who had this name. The girl was described as…

the breaker of all official silences

Do you think we are asking for trouble in choosing this name for you? 😉 We hope for you strength and beauty and connectedness with God. God will use you in wonderful and miraculaous ways! We can’t wait to see how!!!

We love you, Little Raz!
Your Mommy & Daddy


Macy & Jake can’t wait either

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Hey Sweetie –

Just wanted to let you know that you will have a couple furry friends waiting for you at home when you arrive. Jake (1.5 yrs old) and Macy (4.5 yrs old) won’t be able to come to the hospital to meet you when you first arrive, but they will be there in spirit.

Here is a recent picture of them so you know what to expect. I know they’re a bit hairy, but they are very lovable. They will make GREAT playmates for you!

Talk to you more soon. We love you!!
*Mommy


34 weeks and counting

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Dear Little Raz,

This is your Mommy writing. We have been together now for a little over 34 weeks! Can you believe it? I have loved hanging out with you for all of this time! Though quite strange at times to feel you roll or kick, when I saw your picture last week on the ultrasound printout, I cried. You look so beautiful, so real, so fully formed, so our little girl!

I loved singing in the Gospel choir with you last night. Do you know you danced in my belly to the music the whole time? They call you “The Gospel Choir Baby.” They are so excited about your arrival! I don’t know if it is a realistic goal or not, but I’m hoping you’ll sing with me once you arrive. We’ll see how you react to all of the craziness!

Anyway, 5.5 more weeks and you’ll be here! We really can’t wait! Keep growing, and remember to turn head down soon. You don’t want to wait too long, or you’ll be too big to turn… so turn soon, okay? And if you don’t mind, slide down a bit so Mommy can breathe. 🙂 Thanks Sweetie.

Have a good night Little Raz. Keep kicking! I love knowing you’re there!

Your Daddy and I love you very much!!
*Mommy