Would you rather… jerk or dork?

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You have the most incredible inspirations and insights at bedtime… at least that is when I have the privilege of hearing some of them. About 15 minutes after the 14th time I’ve finally succombed to the ridiculous urge to command you to “Please. Just go to sleep.”

True to form, after packing up the condo in Delaware, driving 8 hours home, … (fill in all the in-between things), unpacking here at home, I was desperately trying to get you to go to sleep…

Mama?
Yes Sweetie.
Would you rather date a jerk or a dork?
(You always suck me in with you’re interesting questions, as I am so curious about your thinking…)
A dork, I answer
Why?
Because he could be sweet, witty, kind, and could really care about me and others.
Why not a jerk?
Oh, I don’t know. I guess I think of people being called jerks b/c they think only about themselves and are sometimes willing to hurt others for that.

Yeah, you agree… and then reinterpret for me: That’s what I think too. I think about it this way: What’s on the insides matters more than whats on the outside.

Yep, I agree, and smile. And that’s that for tonight.



Dan is committed…

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Out in the ocean…you and me…by ourselves… tide is high

“Mama, I want to go get Dan.”

“Why?”

“Because Dan is committed to saving my life.”

“Are you nervous being with me?”

“No. It’s just that… Dan is committed to saving my life.”




beautiful summer night…

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best friend…big sister… berry picking… branch climbing… and a bed partner – what?!?!? sleepover in the middle of the week?!?!? That friend of yours must be pretty special!!

Really doesn’t get better than this

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4th of July at Chautauqua

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We had a ball – just the three of us – you, DJ and me

A list of our highlights:
* As soon as we arrived at the house we rented, you ran out on dock and jumped in – clothes and all; soon became a skinny dipping experience 🙂 You’re the best!!
* Biking trails; you biked, I ran along a magical path that led to “Tom’s Point” You were so proud of the distance you biked, and we LOVED the nature we saw!! A treasured time for me for sure!! (Then we jumped into the lake 🙂 )
* Watching fireworks from our dock
* Ice cream for breakfast – DJ said “Of course, it is vacation after all.”
* We finished Ever After High, book II (extended story time – in the cabin, on the dock and finally by the fire)
* We met a parrot named Bella who only says “Hello”
* We laughed SO HARD tubing without a boat at Pete and Linda’s cottage!! My tummy hurt!!
* Bought matching sweatshirts at Chautauqua Institution – bright orange ones!!
* Went to church with Pete and Linda at Chautauqua Institution and bought them a copy of Wonder!!

What a ball!! Can’t wait to do it again!!
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trending the purple hair

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Early May your cousin made promises of purple hair – and you were inspired. For her birthday, she was blessed with purple hair and purple glasses. Beautiful.

Meanwhile, back at our home site, you were giving your Dad a VERY hard time about brushing your hair. While doing that, you started mentioning that you would like purple hair also – same bottom four inches as your cousin.

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