developmental milestones indeed

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I swear you grow up OVER night, Baby Girl!! It’s crazy!

This morning we followed our regular routine where you come and tell me that it’s “wake-up time” at 6:30am and we tease back and forth about how dark it is and whether or not it REALLY is wake-up time… and we giggle.

After I set our clothes for both of us and I took a shower, you came left your TV show and walked over to me and said, “Mommi, I have to go potty.” “Great, let’s go!” You then went poopies on the potty! (Big deal!! NICE!) After adequate celebration, I went back to getting ready….

Next thing I know, I turn around and you had COMPLETELY dressed yourself – taken off your pj’s and put on your shirt, big-girl-underwear, pants, and socks!! All by yourself! CRAZY! Where did my baby girl go? You are such a big little girl…

Quite a day!
I love you, Peanut. I continue to be amazed by you more and more each day….


a precious night

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I know I am SO behind in posting pictures and events – even BIG events like a CA visit from Uncle David, but I’m trying to get my camera to play nicely with my new computer, and I just never seem to have the time to troubleshoot it… so, for now, I’m going to just write about tonight.

You had spent the weekend with Daddy. When you got home at 5:30pm you were FULL of hugs and kisses and playfulness. We had a fantastic time making snacks of cheese, crackers and black bean towers as well as cherry tomato chipmunk cheeks which I squished and you giggled. You played “sink or float” with many different types of toys in the sink, and then we headed up to bed earlier so we could read plenty of stories.

The new FAVORITE is a beautiful book loaned to us from “Uncle Jim,” our dear friend from church. it could NOT be more perfect for you! The writing is so fantastic for kids, and the illustrations are gorgeous. The BEST part? The stories are core Bible stories of Jesus’ amazing love, caring and power: Little Zaccheus; Bartimaeus’s sick eyes; the Boys and Girls and Jesus; Jesus shushs the winds and waves; and finally the one man who came back to say “thank you.” You asked for almost all of the stories to be read “again, Mama.”

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After the last story of the one of ten who came back to said Thank You, we had the MOST PRECIOUS prayer time ever. You were sitting on your bed and I in the rocking chair. After I asked you if you wanted to thank Jesus for something, you started by looking up and saying “I love you Jesus.” I again asked you if you wanted to say thank you to Jesus for something. We took turns looking up toward heaven and thanking Jesus for something. You began “Thank you Jesus for chocolate.” I repeated it. Then you said, “Thank you Jesus for this book.” I repeated it. “Thank you Jesus for ALL my books.” I repeated it. “Thank you Jesus for my candy.” I suggest Daddy. “Thank you Jesus for Daddy.” “Thank you Jesus for Mama.” Thank you Jesus for Maya.” (all your prayers). “Thank you Jesus for purple B.” I almost cried… You words and your heart were so sincere.

Then you jumped to my lap and gave me the biggest hug and kiss.

Thank you Jesus for the love that you show both of us in the joy that is uniquely ours. We feel your love – it’s so clear. And it makes ALL the difference!

Peanut, you are exactly what Jesus was talking about when He said, “let the little children come to me… for the kingdom of heaven belongs to them.” I have so much to learn from you in how you thoughtfully and sincerely receive the Kingdom of God. I will be humbly watching…

Good night Baby Girl… Thank you for a night I will treasure forever… Your Mommi


Surrounded by Love – Christmas 2007

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Wow, so much has happened this past week – let’s see if I can catch you up a bit. The highlights:
* We spent last weekend in State College with our dear friends Scott, Christine, Grace, Emmy and Phoebe

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* You had breakfast on Christmas Eve’s Day with Daddy, Grandma and Papa Tatro.
* We decorated Christmas cookies for Auntie Judi, Uncle Jim and Santa Claus.

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* After a late nap (maybe because of the frosting we ate?), we joined Martha & Delilah as well as Meg, Phil, Claire and Maeve for a FANTASTIC family Christmas Eve church service.

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* After church, we joined 24+ people at the Fonzi Christmas Eve party. Around 8:30pm, after leaving a plate of cookies for Santa and carrots for his reindeer, you snuggled up in CJ’s bedroom (that you now call “our room.”)

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* While you were sleeping, I sneaked out to sing with the Gospel choir for the midnight mass.
* The next morning, you started Judi and Jim’s day by jumping on their bed and announcing that it is “wake-up time!” We spent the morning together in our pj’s, opening presents, playing with them, and eating Christmas brunch. It was truly wonderful.

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* After a nap, we headed over to Hannah’s family’s extended family Christmas party where you met ALL kinds of new friends – friends of all ages. You played so hard, ate many cookies, and overall, just had a great time!
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* The next day (12/26), we joined my friend Jim from the Gospel Choir and his two kids, Madeline (9) and Daniel (7) for breakfast and sledding. Again, an incredible day out in the sun and snow!! We all had a cup of hot chocolate (your first cup!) that we cooled down with snow. After tobagganing as a full group many times down a big hill and drinking hot chocolate, we had snowball fights and went on hikes. What a gorgeous day and wonderful time! After playing, you crashed at Jim and Carmen’s house. We had dinner with them and then came home and crashed again!

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*This morning you went swimming with Daddy, and after daycare, you and I went down to check out Daddy’s new home and go out to eat with him.

See? It has been an INCREDIBLY busy week in which we were TOTALLY SURROUNDED BY LOVE!!
Emanuel… God is with us! Through Grace and Emmie, Scott and Christine, Grandma and Papa, Mommi and Daddy, Delilah, Jeff and Martha, Jim and Judi, Laura and other work friends, Jim, Carmen, Madeline and Daniel…. Do you feel totally loved?!? Yeah, me too. Thanks God!

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Marlie and her Mom

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Marlie and her family have been such GREAT friends to us, especially these past couple of weeks when we needed a few extra hugs and laughs. Last Saturday, you and I joined Marlie and her Mom and Dad for a pancake breakfast with Santa and Ms. Claus at a local farm called Springdale Farm (you both have been there a number of times). Here are some pictures from our adventures!

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New Gymnastics

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We decided to give a new gymnastics place a try; your first day was December 6. Miss Kathy is your new teacher, and, at THIS school, I get to play with you!

We’re still adjusting a bit to the new structure, but you seem to be loving it!!

Here are a couple picture highlights… It was hard to take pictures while spotting you, but we’ll get some better ones soon… stay tuned…

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Words from “school”

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Checking in with your school to make sure you’re doing fine there, I asked your teacher to give me a report. This is what she wrote today:

As time has gone by, I’ve noticed that Maya has grown in so many ways. She loves being taught new things. She enjoys Circle Time and doing art projects. We worked on a “Me & Myself” theme. This project was a focus on herself and what she is able to do. During this time, Maya started potty training. She sings our song, “See what I can do all by myself” every time she goes potty. She is always so lovable that there is no way you can keep yourself from loving her. Her independence is growing. Maya loves to do things on her own. Dressing and cleaning up after herself are just some of the things she does on her own. He beautiful smile lights up the classroom every day. -Maritza

I agree with your teachers! I can SEE your growth EVERY day, and it is SO much fun. You and I have full conversations now. You love to help me do whatever it is that I’m working on – whether it’s cooking, cleaning, working on my computer, or taking a shower 😉 . You have the BIGGEST heart in ALL of the world. Lately, you have given me a TON of sweet kisses and words of encouragement! Today you sat behind me and rubbed my shoulders. Last week, at dinner, you took my face in your little hands and said, “Mama, you are so pretty!” Tonight while we were rocking to sleep, you leaned up and gently kissed my cheek about 7 times. What a sweet, lovable girl.

And you ARE doing so many things on your own. You can get dressed by yourself. You are going pee pee and (occasionally) poo poo on the potty. You decide every morning when it is “wake-up time” (sometimes, much to my chagrin); today declaring it so by turning on the light in my bedroom.

Other sweet things?
You refer to your big bed as your “cozy bed” and my bed as my “cozy bed,” while your toddler bed you call your “special bed.” You eat a number of butter and jelly sandwiches on wheat bread every morning. You LOVE to watch for the three “big trucks” (the garbage trucks) come every Thursday morning. The trash people even watch for you and wave to you! It’s very sweet. As I said, you LOVE snow! You love to eat snow… which has been somewhat problematic, as I have had to help you differentiate between “clean” snow from outside and dirty snow tracked in from the bottom of our shoes. You’ll often pick some off the floor and say, “Mama, was this on your shoe?” “Yes, Sweetie, don’t eat it.” When I leave your bedroom at night, you always grab a hold of me, look me straight in my eyes and say, “Mama, stay for ONE more song!” Even sometimes when music isn’t playing and you want me to stay, you’ll look me deep in the eyes and say, “Mama, stay for just ONE more song…” and of course, I do.
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We snuggle every morning and discuss whether or not it is “wake-up time” with many, many giggles. And we snuggle every night as we watch what our family still refers to as “P.T.” (instead of TV) and as we rock before bedtime. We chase each other around the house with ice packs, and we have a blast playing with playdough.

You are growing, and it is SO MUCH FUN!! I love you Peanut Butter!


Daddy’s Decision

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It’s crazy how life can change in a blink of an eye.

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And it certainly has for our little family. It’s now going to be primarily you and me kid…

And we are going to be GREAT!! Daddy has decided that he no longer wants to be married to me or live with us, so our wonderful little family is experiencing some great sadness. But, as you will learn, God works His most amazing miracles at times we might perceive to be hopeless. As Aunti Judi said, we will just redefine “family” to be much more inclusive. You will have many Aunti’s and Uncles – fascinating, grounded loving people who will expose you to the beauty and challenges of life…. Want some examples? Aunti Liz, Uncle Michael, Aunti Kankana (all three doc students of mine), Uncle Jim from Gospel Choir, Aunti Brenda from Gospel Choir, Aunti Susan (Hannah’s Mommy), and so many more. We will open our homes and hearts to those who need our love and those who want to love us.

Your Daddy promises to always love you and be a very important part of your life. (I’m sure you know that by now.) Don’t you worry for even a minute about that. I know you’re going to have many questions, and we’ll try to figure out those answers together as we grow – at this point I understand neither the questions nor the answers… But that is what faith is all about. We’re gonna go with that. Before you were born Jonathon from Gospel Choir said, “You can’t stop trustin’ Him now, Sister. You can’t stop trustin’ Him now.” This is just one more time when that advice could not be more important.

Just imagine all the amazing adventures in store for us!! Want to take dancing together? And maybe French? Want to row a gondola in Italy? Want to snorkel in Belize? River raft in Brazil? Whatever it is – it will be amazing – because it will be with you. I love you Peanut Butter. Thank you for bringing so much JOY to my life…. EVERY SINGLE DAY!!

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our first real snow

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You absolutely LOVE SNOW!! You love to eat it, make balls of it and throw them at me, make snow angels, and go for rides on your sled! Sunday night, we all went to our favorite park for some wonderful snow frolicking! How fun!

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Thursday night’s family fun

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Last Thursday night we headed out to our neighborhood’s winter holiday festival:

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PARK AVENUE
HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE

Thursday, November 29th, 2007
5 to 9 p.m.

After meeting Pooh, Piglet, Tigger, Razorshark (a local icon), Blue, Frosty and Scooby-Doo, we headed down the street to share a pizza. While we were there, a friend of Daddy’s from work came in (Jason) with his wife Diana and their daughter Anabell. We invited them to sit with us. Anabell is just 2 years old. You did such a great job sharing your pizza and grapes with her… and then she shared her shells with you! Very nice.

We then walked down to meet Raggety-Ann who was making balloon animals and things for all the kids. Following the kids in front of us, you asked for a long sword… purple. How fun. And Santa’s elf gave you a big candy cane.

Then you and I headed across the street to our favorite candy store. They were giving out free samples, so we each had one… and, of course, we bought a few treats to bring home with us.

We had so much fun we hardly noticed that is was a blustery 33 degree day…

Here are a couple pictures:
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What a fun adventure!! I love you Peanut Butter!


a few other pictures I’ve missed

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The week before Thanksgiving, your gymnastics class had a special night for friends and family to come and watch you. Aunti Judi and Uncle Jim joined Daddy, you and me… Here are some of those picture highlights:

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Can you see the little girl jumping in the background? That is my little free spirit!! I wouldn’t want you to be any other way!!

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Finally, just before Thanksgiving we went to a kids’ play with a bunch of our friends (people I work with and their kids). It was a puppet show of Leo Lionni’s Swimmy, Frederick, and Inch by Inch. After the play, the two puppeteers answered kids’ questions and showed us how the puppets worked. My favorite part of the play were the opening announcements. They said, “Some of you may know these stories, and you might get the urge to yell out what’s going to happen next to help us out. That is just fine. This is a non-shushing play.” 🙂 Cool, huh? Anyway, here are a couple pictures from our afternoon with Simon, Margo, another Maya, her brother Hugh, Delilah and their parents.
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